Common Couples’ Worries: But I Hate Having My Pictures Taken!

Berkshire wedding photographerWe expect this every time we meet our clients for the first time. In fact, it’s not even surprising anymore. They’re not models or photography experts, so there’s no reason to assume that they’ll come prepared and pose according to how you want them to.

Some of the major factors that affect this are relationship level, your professionalism, and your attitude in directing your clients.


Since that both your clients know each other well and is, in fact, getting married, there’s no need to worry about chemistry. What you need to conquer next is your relationship with the both of them. It’s best that you first get to know them and direct the relationship towards a friendly one. This is also what made very successful.

Some people are reluctant to express themselves openly in front of people they are not close with. Such conservative people will need more effort to get close with.

Whenever the both of you have the chance to meet, do spend the time wisely. Let them consult and give advice as if you are talking to someone you really care. It would be even better if you can genuinely care about them.

Charging for consultation?

That’s a big no. Always make time to allow them to consult with you, no matter how often. This is part of the customer service and to improve your relationship with them. Who knows, they’ll recommend you to others because you were treating them very well and is eager to help anytime. Even before the wedding day!


Not everybody is photogenic. As a Berkshire wedding photographer, it is also your job to find the ‘perfect angle’ of your clients. They might not even know it themselves! Learn poses that are simple and easy to understand by your clients. At the same time, don’t apply mundane pictures just because they are beginners in doing a photography session.

Related to the first part, relationship, learn how to break the ice. Trying to get your clients to do a romantic pose can be challenging. It is because they are seen by only you and they have to get into the feel immediately.


Talent aside, making jokes can be hard for some people. Lots of photographers hide behind cameras because they were never skillful with talking and describing. But, if jokes are not your forte, you should try another type of approach! Genuinely listening and conversing with them at the initial meeting will melt the barrier slowly and there won’t be much ice to break on D-day.


As a wedding photographer, directing your clients is part of the job. As natural as you want to be, a Berkshire wedding photographer will have to learn one or two things about directing their clients.

If you have a basic reference for posing, that’s great. The next step is to tweak those presets and create a unique pose for your clients. Be sure to let them know what you want. “I want both of you to look at the sun.”

Build the mood. Start by posing funny and enjoyable poses. It can be running, laughing or simply smiling while looking at each other. Then, move on to more intimate and lovely pictures. While the awkwardness is long gone, your clients are also getting used to your directions.

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